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We often focus on external validation, trying to change the outward appearances of our lives rather than addressing the internal struggles that truly hold us back. We attempt to fix our problems with quick fixes, Band-Aid solutions, and Formulaic recipes for success. But the truth is that personal growth can’t be achieved by simply following a series of steps or adopting a certain mindset. It requires a much more nuanced and complex approach.
Moreover, I believe that our obsession with self-improvement has unwittingly contributed to a culture of toxic positivity, where we’re expected to present a perfect, outwardly-confident facade at all costs. We’re encouraged to suppress our emotions, hide our vulnerabilities, and pretend that everything is okay, even when it’s not. And this has led to a society where we’re less likely to take risks, share our true thoughts and feelings, and be ourselves.
I’ve come to understand that personal growth is not about becoming someone else, but about embracing who we already are. It’s about accepting our strengths and weaknesses, and learning to love and accept ourselves, imperfections and all. It’s about letting go of the need for external validation and embracing our inherent value and worth. And most importantly, it’s about recognizing that growth is not linear, but a messy, imperfect, and spiral-like process.
In my own journey, I’ve learned to be patient, kind, and compassionate with myself, recognizing that my self-worth is not tied to my accomplishments or external validation. I’ve come to see that true growth occurs when I surrender to the uncertainty, embracing the unknown and the uncomfortable. It’s a transformation that’s ongoing, ever-evolving, and always imperfect.